Cruise Plastic Surgery Looks at Mommy Makeovers from the Husband’s Perspective

“Happy Wife, Happy Life” is a saying that seems to ring true according to husbands whose wives have had plastic surgery. With the growing acceptance of plastic surgery among mothers after childbirth, Cruise Plastic Surgery takes a look at the transformative journey from the husband’s perspective.

Newport Beach, Calif (Vocus) April 30, 2010

Cruise Plastic Surgery Mommy Makeover Patient

Dr. Joseph Cruise takes a look at the plastic surgery experience from the husband’s perspective and offers suggestions to help ensure a supportive and positive surgical process for both husband and wife.

A Husband’s Apprehension

Commonly, when a woman brings up the subject of having a cosmetic procedure it can be met with initial apprehension from her husband.

As one husband states: “I felt she was perfect just the way she was, and I was worried about the general ‘What if’ concerns that go along with having surgery.”

It is this reason that Dr. Joseph Cruise of Cruise Plastic Surgery feels it is crucial to have the husband come along to the initial consultation so that a lot of the common concerns can be addressed.

“Our plastic surgery consultations are very informative and can be quite emotional,” says Joseph T Cruise, MD. ”

“It is important for the husband to be there, not only to understand what his wife’s concerns are, but also to help guide her in the decision making process.” says Joseph T Cruise, MD.

A Husband’s Realization

It also gives the husband a chance to really understand the reasons behind their wife desire to have surgery. Some are completely surprised when they hear their wife disclosing to the doctor her daily dissatisfaction with her particular area of concern.

“I had always known that Linda had wanted to get her body back after having the children, but I was completely baffled to learn that she was actually choosing to not participate in certain activities or be in family photos due to how she felt about how she looked, I was unaware of the level in which it was affecting her and the emotional toll it was taking,” says a patient’s husband.

While it is a known fact that the positive reactions to the physical results of having plastic surgery are plentiful and obvious, it is actually the inner transformation that the husbands comment on being the most dramatic change in their wives.

“I can honestly say that Shayne’s surgery has been a life changing experience for her. While I credit Joseph T Cruise, MD for accentuating her natural beauty, I credit my wife for using that as a catalyst to rediscover who she is as a person. I truly feel that Shayne’s surgery is the physical springboard for a personal rediscovery. Her infectious personality has actually grown and she is becoming more interested in hobbies that she never was before,” says husband of a mommy makeover patient.

“I did not think it was possible to have my wife be more beautiful to me. Her attitude and the way she feels about her body now has turned her into a new person. When I see her checking herself out in the mirror and see the smile on her face, I know this surgery was the right decision,” says spouse of breast lift with augmentation patient.

Tips For A Supportive Husband

Cruise Plastic Surgery offers the following tips for husbands whose wives are looking at having plastic surgery.

•     Try to understand her needs and why it is important for her to have surgery.
•     Have a heart to heart talk with her about her expectations and concerns.
•     Join her during consultations to reinforce your support.
•     Be actively involved in the decision making process to ensure she is safe.
•     Look for a board certified plastic surgeon with a lot of experience in this particular procedure
•     Make sure all is organized and taken care of at home while she is healing from surgery.

You must understand that throughout your wife’s plastic surgery journey, she needs your support more than ever. Working together as a team in regards to all decision making and planning will not only help to ensure a positive experience, but it can also bring you closer together.

Schedule a Consultation

To schedule a consultation with Dr. Cruise, located in the greater Los Angeles area in Newport Beach, CA, call their office at (949) 446-1421. If you prefer, a virtual fast-track consultation is also available. Simply complete our online form and send in photos to be reviewed by Dr. Cruise.